Philosophy
PHILOSOPHY BEHIND DATING READY
Healthy Couples Who Stay Together Have Healthy Families
In an era of disposable relationships, the breakup fallout comes at a high premium. From the cost of divorce, through the cost of therapy to heal from the effects of breakup, through the impact it has on our children and families, it is not something that the wise want to take casually. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but today we want it all—inner beauty and outer. If the “product” isn’t flawless, there is always a new and shinier model.
Physical beauty has and always will be a desirable commodity. Inner beauty is what makes for the longevity and the deepening of the connection. Certainly we know that outer beauty fades over time (unless you have a great plastic surgeon), and without that heart and soul connection, the relationship will only be skin deep and very transient at best.
Welcome to a whole new era of relationships where we want it all—good looks, brains, creativity, money, loyalty, hot sex, great laughter, and heart to heart soulmate connection. Is it too much to ask to have it all? You can always ask….but having it all means being it all. Why would your wish list person want you if you weren’t “Dating ready?”
Dating Ready is what each and everyone needs before entering a relationship so that we can bring our best to our prospective partner. We understand that because we are mind body soul, we have to nurture all three. The physical is the easy part—it’s easier to lose weight, get a great hair style, change your make up, skin condition and wardrobe than it is to change those inner flaws. But what’s the use of being beautiful on the outside if you don’t have the skills and knowledge to pick the right partner, if you don’t have the skills to relate intimately, if the two of you together are not contributing to the bigger picture of why you chose to be together in the first place.
When you have the clear vision to see yourself from an inside outside perspective, and learn how to self reflect and self correct, you are on the path to both inner and outer beauty, making you long term relationship ready.
Soulmates—that overused term that is still so predominantly used in our culture are people who come together for a greater good or cause. This can only occur in an relationship environment of unconditional love. It is our intention to address your human needs for beauty and psychological well being so that you can manifest the gifts that you bring to life.
For those planning to be future parents it is our intention to empower you to be beautiful in every way so that you and your children can have the most important gift—the gift of a nuclear family that stays together so that our next and future generations can thrive on the healthy attachment and bonding that you can share with them.
Before you think of entering a long term committed relationship Get Dating Ready.
Remember..the grass isn’t always greenest on the other side, it’s greenest where you water it.
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